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Individuation – an online dating epiphany

dSome years back I decided to try online dating. I didn’t give it all my heart, so I can’t speak either for it or against it. What I can say is that it took a big chunk out of each day, and as a consequence I only ended up corresponding with a few people. Already back then, my life was life was filled up with exciting life projects, studies, and soul growth adventures, and it seemed like I could find better use of my time than sitting in front of a computer screen writing messages to people – many of which whom did not seem to share my interest in living life to the fullest and passionately blossom into our true selves.

However, I decided to give it a go, and ended up talking with a man who happened to live just a few streets from where I was living at the time.  He gave me the impression of being very lively and dedicated, and I felt excited to learn more about him. One thing I do remember finding rather odd about the online dating websites is how people interact with each other like they are doing are conducting interviews on each other. I was sent so many questions, and the whole experience felt rather bizarre. This guy was no different. He asked me what I live for, and my answer was “becoming the best I can be”.

I never once heard one word from him again. I was still quite young, and didn’t know myself enough to know that this is my truth. As a long time student of Carl Jung I know individuation is my path. Carl Jung describes individuation as the process of blossoming into our full potential. Back then however, I was still testing the water, exploring different ways of growing and expressing myself more fully.

I am very thankful to this man, because thanks to him I ended up doing some silent reflection on what really is important to me, and it was there and then I claimed ownership of my vision:

My vision is to blossom into who I am, feeling more connected to myself, other beautiful souls, and the whole Universe.

Anna-Karin Bjorklund

It is no wonder that one of my favorite individuation quotes by Carl Jung is:

“The privilege of a lifetime is to become who you truly are.”

Carl G. Jung


Love & Gratitude,

Anna-Karin, xo

Anna-Karin Bjorklund is a writer and dream expert based in Newport Beach, California. An intrepid world traveler, she has lived in five countries and loves exploring different cultures and connecting with people. Her latest book: a memoir based on a spiritual journey to India and the philosophical remnants of stepping into her power and finding the path of self-love, comes out in November, 2017. She is also the author of Dream Guidance: Interpret Your Dreams and Create the Life You Desire! Anna-Karin loves sharing her passion for dreams and personal growth with audiences near and far, and has made expert appearances on Fox & Friends, and the Steve Harvey TV Show on NBC, and been interviewed by Women’s Running Magazine, Money Magazine, Daily Worth, Marie Claire UK and other media outlets.


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